After a three year hiatus, Simple Stewardship is back in the blogosphere.
For three years I posted diligently about my struggles with vegetable gardening in a back yard with a western exposure during three of the hottest summers in recent history. I gave up the gardening and I gave up the blog. We took out the raised beds and cultivated a crop of bermuda grass and weeds.
Life has had its ups and downs. My husband underwent cancer surgery and is now cancer free. Thank you, Lord. He also had an unexplained heart attack. Unexplained in the sense that ALL tests came back squeaky clean. Our son graduated college and is now one of the millions of graduates looking for a job. A year later, he is renewing his studies to hopefully open some new doors. I’m three years older, still working at the same job, but generally enjoying life. My husband and I went through a period of several months of refurbishing our home in the hopes of selling it and moving into something a little newer and in an area with a little more of nature around us. But, quite honestly, we didn’t find anything for which we were willing to start another 30 year mortgage or add 45 minutes to our daily commute.
So, here we are. In our old house, hunkered down for the long haul. As I gaze upon the blank slate that is my back yard, all I see is the faded fence and the chimney of my neighbor’s house. No life, no color, no natural beauty.
BUT THAT’S ABOUT TO CHANGE! I found a wonderful landscaper who has produced a long range plan for planting a mix of native grasses, flowering shrubs, a fruit tree and vegetables to bring our back yard to life.
I don’t know about you, but I cannot live happily, contentedly and simply, without some natural color and beauty around me. I NEED it. If I can just look at something beautiful in nature, it helps me keep my financial priorities straight and I don’t spend as much money on frivolous things – helps me keep life simple. Does that sound weird? If I’m discontented, I spend money. Natural beauty calms me and keeps me a little more content with my life. In The Nature Principle author Richard Louv says “…the human organism needs direct experience with nature.” We all NEED it. So if we can’t move to nature, I’m bringing it here. I’m tired of being unhappy with my environment, the lack of natural beauty around me. I’m tired of wishing we lived somewhere else and I’m going to do something about it! I asked the landscaper specifically for a plan with plants that can go straight into our clay soil with no major amendment, plants that are heat and drought tolerant, but will give me some color and life. Ms. Susan Mayberry came through with flying colors!!! If any of you in the OKC area need some help with what to plant where, shoot me an email and I will share her contact information.
So while I’ve been working on changing my environment for the better, I’ve also made a few changes to the blog. I’ve changed the theme, deleted a couple of pages and added some new ones. I still have a list of my favorite books, but have added a page where I will be sharing favorite recipes, some from family, some from friends and some I’ve just run across and have enjoyed. I’ll be sharing my quilting hobby here and probably shutting down my other blog, www.dragonflyquilting.wordpress.com.
So stay tuned! And keep life simple…